Trisomy Siblings

 One of the things that doctors worry about with a medically needy child is the effect it will have on the family.  And no, I'm not going to say there is no effect.  It is hard sometimes, but what isn't?

When it was time to make the decision about traching Aaron, a social worker asked me if I'd considered the impact it would have on my family, on his siblings, how hard it would be for them and how it would impact their lives.

It has impacted them.  Some things have changed.  But take a look at just a few of the things that have been happening in their lives over the last year and a half or so, and tell me.  Do these kids look like their lives have been ruined by their brother?

They've started school, finished school....

Moved out and held jobs.

 They've been involved in team sports.

Andrew got baptized.

They've participated in choir and band and the arts...

Of course, scouting is still a big deal.

Dance continues to play a BIG part in their lives...

And they play, together.  Because that's what families do.

Many years ago, our three oldest sang a great song for a school talent show called, "What Does it Take to Make a Family."  Here's the gist of it:

What does it take to make a family,

One that won’t break when the bumps come along?

What does it take to make a family?

People who work and work and love and laugh,

People who sing a song.

What does it take to make a family

One that is there even when you are wrong?

What does it take to make a family?

People who all forgive and help,

People who sing a song.

What does it take to make a family,

One that will help you learn how to be strong?

What does it take to make a family?

People who all believe in you,

People who sing a song.

So we keep on singing.....